Mumma!! :D

Well, its 24th of December and not only is it Christmas' Eve but also my mom's birthday!
Every year I borrow some 100+ bucks from my grandfather and buy a birthday present for my mom from the Archie's gift shop! :P
But this year I have a Blog and this year and wanted her gift to be a bit special...
She is just the best mom there could be in the world! (no offence but, ME MOMMY IS THE  BEST!). I haven't seen a finer lady. She is soooo cute! She worries about almost everything. First she used to constantly tell me that 'Bhavya..when will you grow up?' and now that I have become a bit wiser she wants me to remain as the baby that I was. She loves her family, especially me and my sister unconditionally and the same goes when she gets angry at us! She has told me how proud she is of me as she was able raise her daughter who was once only about 'goo-goo's and ga-ga's' into a 15 year old young-adult who now has enough words in her dictionary to write her own Blog.
Mumma, you've always been my bestest friend and were there whenever I needed you. When I feel low I look for you, your soft eyes, your warm embrace, your calming touch. And when I feel elated, I look for you, your smiling face with your eyes twinkling, your warm embrace and that 'I'm so happy for you' pat-on-the-back! You've always been my role-model, my idol, my best advisor.
Do you want to know something else? No matter how much I try I can never succeed to become like you. There's a reason to it: I'm a part of you and that's why I will never be completely like you.
I've told this to you many times and here I go again...
I LOVE YOU, AND ALWAYS WILL
I RESPECT YOU AND ALWAYS WILL
I CARE FOR YOU AND ALWAYS WILL
YOU'VE GOT THE BIGGEST HEART AND ALWAYS WILL
....and now that I've written so much about you and still a lot is left just give me one of your brightest smiles and the cuddliest hugs, while I wish you.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUMMA!!! I HOPE YOU LIKE YOUR GIFT! :D <3

Rules and Trust_the relationship

Well, here I am again with another post based on my observations. After reading this upcoming line you might find me utterly boring but as my Public diary has to represent all my characteristics , I think this one should be up there too
I've never broken any rules, getting my phone to school being an exception! :P
Yes, at the age of 15, following rules and not even trying or rather wanting to break them, some of you might even want to banish me from the 21st century's 'teen club', well if there is any! :P I guess there are 2 reasons why I'm not much of a rule-breaker:

1. Its in my genes! Starting from my grandparents, my parents then my aunts and uncles..none of them have been rule-breakers and also belong to the sincere and responsible students' category. So, I guess that explains it all.
2. This little word called 'TRUST' stops me from going on and doing something that my parents won't expect from me.

You see..I would like to elaborate the second point a bit. When you have someone in your family or friends or family who can trust you with their lives, it kind of becomes impossible to break their trust. Being the selfish human beings that we are, all of us are scared of getting filled with guilt of breaking someone's trust.

My parents have inculcated some values in me and trust that because of those values my conscience would automatically stop me from doing anything that is wrong. Then also to break rules first I need to have some rules! I've been told that I can do whatever I want to and I won't be stopped, therefore no rules mean no thrill in breaking them either right?

This is the relationship between rules and trust. If someone trusts you, you tend to respect the faith they have in you and do not cross certain limits that will break the rules which you made in your mind along with their trust!

This one seems a bit rough but I still like my views. do you have any opinion on this topic? Comment them down!

~Kudos

being worthy of trust.

X: my life is very complicated! me: *rolls eyes in her mind+a yawn*.. its ok sweety! xP

Just in a matter of 2-3 months, Blogging has become an integral part of my life. That is because it is here that when I say something, I know that someone is truly listening and isn't that what everyone wants? We want to be heard by a million and zillions of people. We have a Right to Speech and Expression of thoughts and we want to use it as much as we can. Anyway this post is not about using our rights to most of our benefits but about a little thing we all know about and how it becomes a National Crisis in our pea-sized minds...

Well, in us teen's world, things being complicated has a completely different meaning than what is presumed by adults. The hilarious part is that what we consider to be a complicated situation is just another silly romantic-comedy movie set-up in our minds! xP 

If you look at it from my point of view you'll understand how (as we all know it) we, the teens make our lives complicated. A friend comes to you and tells you that 'bla!blablabla! is going on in my life and now it has become complicated and shattered!' while in reality he/she might have just had a stupid fight with his/her friends and must be creating a storm in a tea-cup! So, after that we feel "Oh yeah! Life's like this, complicated...everyone's lives are complicated...EVEN MINE!". And here begin our apparently scattered and complicated lives. 

Why do we need to feel that way at all..so that you have stories to tell to your grand-children in the future like, 'Do you know child how many struggles and complications your grandparents have been through ever since they were teenagers?' Oh come on! Doing this stuff to ourselves makes us to ponder upon thoughts that are just not worth it! And to be very honest I would like to add a little something to the saying "Life's not complicated, you make it!" and that is "...you try to make it and it still doesn't become complicated and we dumbos keep imagining that we have the most complicated lives in this whole universe!!! x( "
I think we must know that when a friend comes with a problem which she finds terrible we are supposed to give them a solution, no matter how silly it is and this saves both them and us from wasting our precious time over such stuff! :)

~Kudos
Dude! Its NOT Complicated! >.<