Whenever I tried writing a diary, I used to show it to my mom and ask her if she liked what I wrote :P

Alright, I said that I'll write as much as possible during my Diwali vacations but being a lazy-bum that I am and trying to give my readers the best of me I could not pen down just anything! :P

I have many friends who like to maintain a secret diary and I am one of those who failed every time she wished to keep a REALLY SECRET diary. So what is sooooo special about a diary which is exclusively open just for its owner and sharing of thoughts never really is there??

According to some of my friends they keep a diary because they feel they  don't have anyone that close,  whom they can pour out their hearts to. They feel relieved when they pen down all their day's frustrations and the happiest of feelings in that stack of sheets bound by memories. I won't completely disagree with the fact that may be they are better at expressing their feelings on paper than with spoken words and have the same feeling as Anne Frank who wrote in her diary that how she finds it beautiful how paper understands feelings more than humans can! But to be really honest maybe I never felt the need of a diary...being not at all secretive and sharing the same close bond with both my family and my friends I would rather confide in them than a life-less bundle of paper sheets! (sorry if you find it rude...but that's completely my opinion)

You can get a glimpse of my non-secretive personality in my Blog as here I write what I feel and it is public!

And when I come to think of it I realise that people must be writing their life's account in those diaries...all the good, bad, superbly-awesome moments and incidents every night would be accounted in those diaries. It implies that every time they flip through those pages all those good and bad memories just flash  in front of their eyes...why should the bad ones have to be revived??? Just one page of that can make a great difference and I don't think if it can ever be a good one :(
I believe that good memories would always remain with you and you don't need to store the not-so-good ones...Isn't it better to not keep a diary then?? I mean, secrets..the crazy and fun ones you have with friends are good but the rest of them can be quite destructive at times. Isn't being an outgoing or at least a free minded-person make you umm...better?? :P

Nothing about diary-writings inspires me to become one if you have a really good point to change my opinion I'm ready with a capital R for it!