Mumma!! :D

Well, its 24th of December and not only is it Christmas' Eve but also my mom's birthday!
Every year I borrow some 100+ bucks from my grandfather and buy a birthday present for my mom from the Archie's gift shop! :P
But this year I have a Blog and this year and wanted her gift to be a bit special...
She is just the best mom there could be in the world! (no offence but, ME MOMMY IS THE  BEST!). I haven't seen a finer lady. She is soooo cute! She worries about almost everything. First she used to constantly tell me that 'Bhavya..when will you grow up?' and now that I have become a bit wiser she wants me to remain as the baby that I was. She loves her family, especially me and my sister unconditionally and the same goes when she gets angry at us! She has told me how proud she is of me as she was able raise her daughter who was once only about 'goo-goo's and ga-ga's' into a 15 year old young-adult who now has enough words in her dictionary to write her own Blog.
Mumma, you've always been my bestest friend and were there whenever I needed you. When I feel low I look for you, your soft eyes, your warm embrace, your calming touch. And when I feel elated, I look for you, your smiling face with your eyes twinkling, your warm embrace and that 'I'm so happy for you' pat-on-the-back! You've always been my role-model, my idol, my best advisor.
Do you want to know something else? No matter how much I try I can never succeed to become like you. There's a reason to it: I'm a part of you and that's why I will never be completely like you.
I've told this to you many times and here I go again...
I LOVE YOU, AND ALWAYS WILL
I RESPECT YOU AND ALWAYS WILL
I CARE FOR YOU AND ALWAYS WILL
YOU'VE GOT THE BIGGEST HEART AND ALWAYS WILL
....and now that I've written so much about you and still a lot is left just give me one of your brightest smiles and the cuddliest hugs, while I wish you.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUMMA!!! I HOPE YOU LIKE YOUR GIFT! :D <3

Rules and Trust_the relationship

Well, here I am again with another post based on my observations. After reading this upcoming line you might find me utterly boring but as my Public diary has to represent all my characteristics , I think this one should be up there too
I've never broken any rules, getting my phone to school being an exception! :P
Yes, at the age of 15, following rules and not even trying or rather wanting to break them, some of you might even want to banish me from the 21st century's 'teen club', well if there is any! :P I guess there are 2 reasons why I'm not much of a rule-breaker:

1. Its in my genes! Starting from my grandparents, my parents then my aunts and uncles..none of them have been rule-breakers and also belong to the sincere and responsible students' category. So, I guess that explains it all.
2. This little word called 'TRUST' stops me from going on and doing something that my parents won't expect from me.

You see..I would like to elaborate the second point a bit. When you have someone in your family or friends or family who can trust you with their lives, it kind of becomes impossible to break their trust. Being the selfish human beings that we are, all of us are scared of getting filled with guilt of breaking someone's trust.

My parents have inculcated some values in me and trust that because of those values my conscience would automatically stop me from doing anything that is wrong. Then also to break rules first I need to have some rules! I've been told that I can do whatever I want to and I won't be stopped, therefore no rules mean no thrill in breaking them either right?

This is the relationship between rules and trust. If someone trusts you, you tend to respect the faith they have in you and do not cross certain limits that will break the rules which you made in your mind along with their trust!

This one seems a bit rough but I still like my views. do you have any opinion on this topic? Comment them down!

~Kudos

being worthy of trust.

X: my life is very complicated! me: *rolls eyes in her mind+a yawn*.. its ok sweety! xP

Just in a matter of 2-3 months, Blogging has become an integral part of my life. That is because it is here that when I say something, I know that someone is truly listening and isn't that what everyone wants? We want to be heard by a million and zillions of people. We have a Right to Speech and Expression of thoughts and we want to use it as much as we can. Anyway this post is not about using our rights to most of our benefits but about a little thing we all know about and how it becomes a National Crisis in our pea-sized minds...

Well, in us teen's world, things being complicated has a completely different meaning than what is presumed by adults. The hilarious part is that what we consider to be a complicated situation is just another silly romantic-comedy movie set-up in our minds! xP 

If you look at it from my point of view you'll understand how (as we all know it) we, the teens make our lives complicated. A friend comes to you and tells you that 'bla!blablabla! is going on in my life and now it has become complicated and shattered!' while in reality he/she might have just had a stupid fight with his/her friends and must be creating a storm in a tea-cup! So, after that we feel "Oh yeah! Life's like this, complicated...everyone's lives are complicated...EVEN MINE!". And here begin our apparently scattered and complicated lives. 

Why do we need to feel that way at all..so that you have stories to tell to your grand-children in the future like, 'Do you know child how many struggles and complications your grandparents have been through ever since they were teenagers?' Oh come on! Doing this stuff to ourselves makes us to ponder upon thoughts that are just not worth it! And to be very honest I would like to add a little something to the saying "Life's not complicated, you make it!" and that is "...you try to make it and it still doesn't become complicated and we dumbos keep imagining that we have the most complicated lives in this whole universe!!! x( "
I think we must know that when a friend comes with a problem which she finds terrible we are supposed to give them a solution, no matter how silly it is and this saves both them and us from wasting our precious time over such stuff! :)

~Kudos
Dude! Its NOT Complicated! >.<

Whenever I tried writing a diary, I used to show it to my mom and ask her if she liked what I wrote :P

Alright, I said that I'll write as much as possible during my Diwali vacations but being a lazy-bum that I am and trying to give my readers the best of me I could not pen down just anything! :P

I have many friends who like to maintain a secret diary and I am one of those who failed every time she wished to keep a REALLY SECRET diary. So what is sooooo special about a diary which is exclusively open just for its owner and sharing of thoughts never really is there??

According to some of my friends they keep a diary because they feel they  don't have anyone that close,  whom they can pour out their hearts to. They feel relieved when they pen down all their day's frustrations and the happiest of feelings in that stack of sheets bound by memories. I won't completely disagree with the fact that may be they are better at expressing their feelings on paper than with spoken words and have the same feeling as Anne Frank who wrote in her diary that how she finds it beautiful how paper understands feelings more than humans can! But to be really honest maybe I never felt the need of a diary...being not at all secretive and sharing the same close bond with both my family and my friends I would rather confide in them than a life-less bundle of paper sheets! (sorry if you find it rude...but that's completely my opinion)

You can get a glimpse of my non-secretive personality in my Blog as here I write what I feel and it is public!

And when I come to think of it I realise that people must be writing their life's account in those diaries...all the good, bad, superbly-awesome moments and incidents every night would be accounted in those diaries. It implies that every time they flip through those pages all those good and bad memories just flash  in front of their eyes...why should the bad ones have to be revived??? Just one page of that can make a great difference and I don't think if it can ever be a good one :(
I believe that good memories would always remain with you and you don't need to store the not-so-good ones...Isn't it better to not keep a diary then?? I mean, secrets..the crazy and fun ones you have with friends are good but the rest of them can be quite destructive at times. Isn't being an outgoing or at least a free minded-person make you umm...better?? :P

Nothing about diary-writings inspires me to become one if you have a really good point to change my opinion I'm ready with a capital R for it!

Escape!

2 weeks!!!!.I was following a regular pattern of 1 post a week but my freaking exams broke that pattern. Now I am back and have two-three more topics in mind for the following posts and have enough time since there won't be any school for another 9 days!! So...enjoy reading...

I am a very lazy girl..as lazy as I can be, so I decided on starting going for a walk daily...AGAIN..to bring in some activeness in me and shed a few kilos! :P

I've always enjoyed walking along with some music playing in my ears. It gives me peace and calm (much contrary to my crazy-self!). I recently made a new theory that states 'School trips bring a lot of changes in life!' and implying to that, quite a lot of things had changed in my smooth-going life and surely it was not anything positive. Being a person who takes tension even when there is just nothing to worry about...my mind got entangled in various non-sense topics...which distracted me from my present aim, my studies. this is where the Walk of Peace comes in.

When I'm frustrated, tensed, restless, sad or depressed and have no-one to talk to, I pop in my headphones and rush to the park for a 30-45 minutes' walk. I usually take off my spectacles (yes! I wear spectacles B| ) and start walking briskly. Now, the park I go to is in the centre of a society full of buildings and since I go there late in the evenings you can expect all the buildings to be lit up...sooo with no specs on all those tiny lights go blur and I feel like I am walking through the Milky Way Galaxy!! Yes, it sounds a bit dreamy and surreal but isn't it an awesome way of escaping the real and not so beautiful world for a little while?
The cool night breeze that brushes against my cheeks takes away with it all the not-worthy-of my pondering upon thoughts! I feel light-headed and lighter in weight too! :P
Just imagine unreal yet fantastic scenarios while moving your feet ahead of you whilst you still have a fraction of a second more to think over the better stuff in life...What a feeling!

~Kudos!
the great ESCAPE!

Let it out! :D

Its really amusing how resourceful a bathroom can be!!! :P ...no seriously the idea of this post and the following one came to me while I was in the bathroom :P...Anyway, as I've told you that I am a thinker and because I like to reach to the core of every small thing that is a part of our day to day lives, I reach conclusions that are known to almost everyone yet are unknown!

Today's topic is what the combination of frustration and ego do to us...
Most people around me think I am just too innocent or rather naive to understand what is going on around me. They think I'm immature, that I'm still a kid of 15...Why?!
This for quite a while has been a reason to all my frustrations. I feel like going to my friend, my best friend and just burst out crying as we all know that it is the most common way of letting out one's frustrations..Guys, do you know that this innocence may be has been one of the reasons two of my great friends started ignoring me, they didn't share their problems with me thinking I won't understand their case which according to me was a rather stupid one...In my language I would call what she did afterwards would be 'trying to complicate her own life'!
So these two things lead to me getting frustrated..I wished to cry my heart out to my friend but THESE EGOISTIC TEARS JUST REFUSE TO COME OUT X( ...we want to tell our friends everything but still we are so dignified in our own ways...so egoistic that we feel embarrassed to share the stuff that has hurt us somewhere in our hearts with our greatest comforters like our moms or siblings or friends???

You're frustrated? Yes. You fell like bursting? Yes. You can't keep it inside you any more? YES! Then let it out! NOOOOOOOO!!!!
WHY?! -_-
let it out ...we know that people don't like to keep on listening to other's sorrows but at times you should just not keep it in...BECAUSE  people also like to give free advices those given by best friends can be HILARIOUS and help in bringing a smile back to your face!

liked it??hated it? :(
please comment I'm starving for some!

~Kudos!
-the frustrated innocent! :P

I know YOU!!..ya right!

Its funny how we know almost each and every thing about the people around us, it may be everyone and any one! But if one fine day one of those people comes and asks us to describe ourselves...our mind will go blank! We are so busy observing or rather keeping track of what all is going all in others lives that in the middle of all this (whatever you want to name this! :P) we have forgotten that we have ought to discover and know ourselves first...especially if one likes to comment on other people's status!
Alright, lets assume that you know yourself, so why not sit down and make a list of GOOD and BAD qualities you have...In the end count the number of GOOD and BAD qualities you have. In majority of thje cases it is found that surprisingly all of us are Mr (s)/Ms. Nicety, Abou-bin Adhems!

There are very few people in the World who are ready to accept that as much as they are Good-ol' Dalai Lama's they can also be a bit of bad nutcases!
I just noticed that I have kind of diverted from my original topic while typing... :P

Fine! We often find our friends and family members pointing out some hidden qualities about us which we might be aware of somewhere in our sub-conscious mind but realise it only once we are reminded of them by others! I guess its high time that we should start noticing stuff about ourselves so that it helps us in the long run when we have to make decisions for ourselves and  know what we prefer not others!


That's all for now..any comments, opposing views..I welcome them with open arms!

Kudos!
~Who am I?

TEEN-DATERS- categorised

Ok...I thought about it a  lot and finally came to the conclusion that I'll write in my blog whatever comes to my mind...can someone tell me how to get some followers? :p ....any way...

Being an observer I have observed how my classmates happen to date each other, as in on what basis,..
sooo I came to a conclusion that there are three types of teen couples..

1. The forced likers:..teasing is something without which a group of friends is incomplete. Imagine a group of 5 friends...A, B, C, X, and D....A,B,C and D say that X likes Y...and as this false news spreads even Y's friends start saying that dude u like her back and we know it!! *both blush for simply no reason* ....The teasing goes on for days, then weeks and then probably months...this continuous pairing up forces X and Y to think that maybe they do like each other and maybe they should date! :P That's forced and it is not desirable!
2. The one-sided proposal: Having witnessed a similar kind of daters I know how it starts and ends! :( This time lets take a girl M and a guy N...Now N falls for M (God knows why!). N may be popular or may be not..Or M might be popular or may be not. N gather's his courage and asks M out! M says YES. the reason could be anything..She might have happened to like N back (but b'coz this is the one-sided proposal category..may be not!), or she might want to garner other people's attention, she might have said yes just because she wants to date some one or just for time-pass!!! :O...but because it is one-sided N likes M for who she is and M likes N for what she is! This does not last very long, the dating...There is a heart-break but being teenagers we know how to move on better than adults!
3. The true liking: In this the two people E and F truly like each other and confess their liking for each other and date...I guess this is the best-one where there is no heart-break and no intentions where one looks for his/her gain or thinks about his/her reputation..Its 101% pure! :) 

So...Any opinions...You are free to give your opinions on the above post which will be most gladly received!...If you guys have a topic for me to write my views on you can always tell me!

Kudos!

~Class-ongoings! :P

lets start!

Hey guys,
I am just an ordinary teenager with extraordinary observing senses! :P
Well I am certainly not an expert but have made my hobby of observing human nature or to be more precise teen nature....Just trying to predict a friends next step even before he/she thinks about it himself is either a sign of an awesome bestie or an amazing observer....well I can be both but am more of an observer to just friends!
I'll post my thoughts as regularly as possible and would love to read your comments :)

~Happy Feet! ^_^